What matters most

Waist Nipper for men

2012-02-07T02:03:00.000+08:00

As we all know, the Premium Beautiful corset consist of 3 pieces i.e. the Long Bra, Waist Nipper and Long Girdle. Ultimately, it is best if one wears the complete set. However, should the opposite sex (yes, the Alpha Male) wishes to wear it, then the Waist Nipper is IT.

'Perut buncit' seems to be a normal scenario for the male sex nowadays especially married men. Now, we have 2 types of married men (from observation, of course). One who goes all out to take care of himself by either going to the gym or consume healthy meals or diligently exercises or ALL of the above. Now the second type is the one who pretty much is very complacent of what he has and doesn't take the trouble to 'take control' of his health and well-being, so to speak.

Having a bloated stomach (or beer belly) could lead to some serious health problems such as high blood pressure, overweight and extraordinary cholesterol level. Subsequently, one would be at risk of stroke, diabetes and heart problems.

So guys, the best way to get rid of that bulging tummy is through exercise but if you want a more cost-saving way, try using the waist nipper. With constant use, you will get a flatter tummy and better metabolism. The waist nipper is also your cure to back pain.

Please contact me for further information of this amazing product (Ida: 012-3058826)

How to measure for that perfect Premium Beautiful fit?

2012-01-31T16:22:00.000+08:00

To get that perfect fit, there are 4 parts of the body that needs to be measured. Please refer to the diagram below:

Make sure when measuring (in cm), the measuring tape should snug nicely on your body and does not move about. Just send me your measurements and I'll quote your PB size. Simple as that.

Why so expensive?

2012-01-31T14:28:00.001+08:00

Why so expensive? Uissh, tak mampulah nak beli. I don't think I can afford it.
Okay, I get it. Premium Beautiful corset is a bit on the high side. But if you think about it, there must be a reason on why it's priced as such. Take a Beemer or Mercedes for example. Why are they considered expensive? Because they are luxury cars. Nowadays, it is not impossible for anyone to own them, provided that you are actually rich or somebody's daughter/son. Okay, that's not the point! The point is, it is expensive because it is different, it exudes extravagance and only people who knows and appreciates what it has to offer, would understand why it is costly.

Similar to PB, one would give the above reasons if he/she is oblivious of what the product has to offer. If you read my earlier posts, PB not only gives you a perfect cut and a slimmer figure, it helps to improve your health as well as improves your blood circulation, good for detoxification, strengthens the immune system and helps prevent cancer. Yes, cancer.

So before lamenting on the price (I've seen other corsets that come with a higher price tag but are not designed for health), why don't we absorb the full potential of PB by understanding the benefits one can obtain from constant use of PB.

This Malay proverb seems apt "Hendak Seribu Daya, Tak Nak Seribu Dalih". Think about it. Plus, earn big bucks while using the corset. Confirmed 4 figure bonus for the first month of joining the business. Come talk to me for a free consultation.

Pantang (Post natal) with PB

2012-01-29T00:18:00.001+08:00

Premium Beautiful sangat sesuai digunakan bagi wanita yang baru melahirkan anak. Tak kiralah anak pertama ke, ketiga ke, ke tujuh sekalipun, kesan daripada pemakaian PB corset adalah efektif. I just wish I had found PB earlier. Bagi saya, setelah melahirkan anak ketiga, memang susah nak hilangkan spare tyre di tummy and I have developed stretch marks (which I didn't with my 1st and 2nd kids). SO something must be done and sebab tulah I tak ragu2 untuk pakai PB dan share it with everyone.

Here are some of the benefits for post natal mommies:

Mengeluarkan angin dalam badan
Mengecutkan dan memperkemaskan semula rahimyang mengembang semasa mengandung
Menarik dan merapatkan semula tulang pinggul yang mengembang semasa proses bersalin
Menyegarkan badan yang lesu dan letih akibat sepanjang proses melahirkan bayi
Mengeluarkan darah nifas yang beku dan berketul-ketul dengan lancar
Mengeluarkan segala sisa kotoran dan air bisa (menggantikan proses tangas) dari rahim
Menyokong (menyengkak) rahim dari jatuh
Menyihatkan rahim dan memberi persediaan untuk proses persenyawaan seterusnya (menyeimbangkan semula hormon estrogen dan progestron)
Menghilangkan stretch mark akibat semasa mengandung atau menggaru perut semasa mengandung
Menghangatkan dalam badan dan tidak perlu menggunakan bahan2 seperit param, tapel dan pilis
Melancarkan proses pembuangan air besar (sembelit terjadi apabila memakan jamu)
Membanyakkan susu dan mengelakkan bayi dari cirit-birit akibat pemakanan jamu
Merawat luka-luka di dalam rahim mahupun di luar
Menaikkan metabolisma badan membantu mengurangkan berat badan dgn cepat
Membentuk semula payudara, pinggul dan posture badan yang menarik
Wanita bersalin 'ceasarian' (kerana tidak boleh bertungku,memakai ubat dan sebagainya) paling digalakkan memakai Premium Beautiful untuk menyihatkan semula rahim anda dan mengelakkan buncit di bawah perut.

So now, tak perlu susah2 nak pakai begkung ala2 tradisional tu. PB pun dah cukup untuk beri kesan yang sama dan lebih efektif.

So come talk to me for a free consultation. Here's to living healthy and looking good *even with baggage* :)

Goss session with the Girls

2012-01-27T17:18:00.000+08:00

Had a satisfying lunch meet today. Well, yeah the food is great but the best part was that I get to meet my old friends from uni whom I still keep in touch with. That's more than 10 years of friendship. Since we are all working moms (including my friend who is pursuing her PHD while juggling 3 kids!), it is not often that we get to meet and gossip on what's what and who's who.

So, we decided (through Watsapp) to have lunch at Lil Penang since Dot (the future PHD) and myself were longing for kuay teow and cendol. Anin (the Banker) and Jai (expecting her 4th child this May) were pretty much okay with anything since we were all very hungry.

But before heading to Lil Penang, we met in Parkson since Anin broke her shoe strap and needed to get a new shoe ASAP! Oh my gosh, almost everything was 50% off! Thank goodness for self perserverance, I managed to control my 'animal instinct' and steer clear from trying or buying any shoes. Teehee... so proud! Anyways, I'm a big fan of Aldo and Charles & Keith so if I don't see what I like in these 2 shops, then I'll venture to the others. :)

So Anin got her shoes, we hurried upstairs to Lil Penang. Dayyum! Queue was really long so we decided to check out Madam Kwan. No luck. Down to Chili's.. no luck either as we had to wait for half an hour! Finally we settled in Dome. It was great to hear each other's stories.. from babies to kids... to PB to work stuff. We even managed to 'discuss' our domestic issues. We had so much fun that we forget to check our watches. How we wished we could skip work and continue chatting. We didn't have husbands prying on us, giving us signals to go back and we didn't have active kids running around, messing up our quality time catching up. BLISS :).

But reality kicked in, and we actually have responsibilities to attend to. Paid our bills and we parted ways. Auuw, missing them already. One thing's for sure, we promised to get together pretty soon. Probably do a pot luck and gather more friends and catch up. Good thing we have Watsapp. Keeping in touch virtually has never been easy ;).

Words of wisdom from a bonafide leader

2012-01-26T14:14:00.002+08:00

I would love to share with you an entry made by Hanis Haizi, a PB top agent who is a living proof that dedication and perserverance, will definitely get you to the top. Here she talks about the benefits of PB and why we can make a living out of it!

Have you ever wonder WHY we choose PREMIUM BEAUTIFUL not just to WEAR, but to SELL it as well!!

Premium Beautiful has established almost 20 years! In terms of branding kita tak perlu RISAU lagi, sebut jer Premium Beautiful semua orang tahu! Not only that if this product tak bagus, tak ada orang nak beli mesti dah lama discontinuekan the product?:D

The one and only corset in the world SUPERBRAND! Superbrand ni by invitational only!

Life time warranty, come to think of it barang yang kita beli harga 2k++ contoh Handbang, TV, Computers etc... There is no such thing as life time warranty! But PB worth every penny! Tak rugi pun keluarkan RM2000+ but the life span is lifetime!! FREE SERVICE!

Barang yang kita jual ni barang yang sangat2 LOGIC! Perempuan mana tak pakai Bra? or baju dalam dan seangkatan dengannya? So Premium Beautiful is the solution for every women out there! Just educate women instead of pakai bra yang memberi manfaat apa-apa pada diri sendiri, better tukar sahaja with Premium Beautiful!

with Premium Beautiful no more 3rd and 4th breast k!

Suitable for ALL body types!! From Skinny to curvy, pear shape, apple, cylinder and hourglass!! Premium Beautiful custom size for the client!

the right way is to get yourself measure first baru dapat size betul!

FREE TESTIMONIAL!! Banyak orang share testimonial online! So what you need to do just SHARE it with other people! Senang!

We don't do REPEAT SALE so sangat sesuai for those yang tak suka menjual. So tak payah nak kejar customer all the time. NO NEED to RESTOCK product as well.

Premum Beautiful ni satu jenis je, warna HITAM. Cuba bayangkan if too many colors and design? Sorang mintak polka dot, sorang minta pink with lace and all.... pening! Satu jenis je senang!
Bonus with Premium Beautiful starts from 4-5-6 figure a month! Cool!! That's why when I first started the business I was like ok ni sama dengan gaji fresh grad engineer! So tu yang tak jadi kerja terus sampai today! hehe Work SMART!

Jual dah lah sekali seumur hidup, tapi peluang travel tu berulang-ulang kali...so far with Premium Beautiful I have been travel for 7-8 different countries.. and it is FREE!

Car fund for whole life! Berkat jualan premium beautiful dapat merasa pakai kereta mewah dan bulan-bulan tak perlu bayar! Company bayar! Cool!!

Sangat sesuai untuk orang yang nak cari extra income, yang tak ramai kawan, yang tiada pengalaman dalam business or marketing background, yang baru je nak bertatih dalam bidang perniagaan... so instead jump into business sendiri... baik buat Premium Beautiful! No experience required! Sambil belajar sambil buat, dapat intensive training for FREE. Tapi income yang dapat bulanan adalah BERSIH tak ada OVERHEAD nak kena minusss semua

So people what are you waiting for come let's join OUR journey together with Premium Beautiful!!

It's only a phone call away:- 012-3058826 (Ida - your future business partner)

How to care for your PB

2012-01-25T15:23:00.007+08:00

Your precious PB needs to be well taken care of. Here are some tips for you:

Washing instructions

Only hand wash! Try not to squeeze it too hard.
Pour some water into the pail and add any soft liquid detergent (do not use power detergent!). Continue washing.
Rinse the garment and hang them in the toilet so that the excess water drips down. Alternatively, you may dry your PB with a clean towel.
Once the water stops dripping, you can hang them in the room with the fan on.
Premium Beautiful dries up in 4-6 hours so the best time to wash them is once you get back home from work.

Don'ts!

Don't wash your PB in the washing machine!

Don't iron or dry clean!

Don't dry them under direct sunlight!

Don't use powder detergent to wash them!

If you need to go to the bathroom, the easiest way is to take off the waist nipper completely then pull down the long girdle. Don't worry, it would be easier in due time.

When it is that 'TIME' of the month, I suggest you wear your undies so that it's easier and 'safer' with the pad.

Drink 8 glasses of water! With the FIR embedded in PB, our body needs plenty of water for it to take effect!
If you feel dizzy while wearing PB, quickly drink up!

Healing crisis
It is common and temporary. This shows that your body is getting rid of the toxins. Headaches, itchiness and sligh back pain is natural for first time users. Be patient and continue wearing your precious PB :)

It is encouraged that we make do without the undies while using PB so that we get to absorb the goodness of FIR onto our skin.

Wear PB for a minimum of 8 hours a day!

You can even wear it for more than 8 hours. To hasten the effect of weight loss, you can opt to wear PB up to 20 hours. There is no side effects!
Conveniently, I wear the full set only during weekdays i.e. when I work in the office.
For faster results on the tummy, you can just wear the waist nipper before bedtime. Simple!

Nursing & PB

2012-01-23T16:46:00.004+08:00

Ever since the birth of my 3rd son, I have been religiously breast feeding my son as I am very much aware of its amazing benefits. My 2 older boys have also benefitted from mommy's milk for 2 years.

During confinement, I was pretty much a pumping machine as I wanted to make sure my boys receive the wholesome goodness even while I was away at work. Alhamdulillah for my parents whom made sure their cucus get their milk on time :).

When they turned 6 months, I was relieved that at least they didn't really have to rely 100% on my milk as they have started on solids. After passing the 1 year mark, although I was still producing milk, it wasn't as much as before. At that point of time, I have reduce my pumping session and concentrated fully in breast feeding them when I get home from work until the next morning (with intervals, of course,). Luckily my boys had no problem with it and I was happy with the way it was.

When I was introduced with Premium Beautiful, there were testimonials saying that PB has helped to increase milk supply. I was sceptical at first but after a day of trying it, when I got home and took the precious 'garment' off, I realised that my 'factory' felt full. I couldn't believe it. That night, Khaleq slept soundly due to milk overload :p. Alhamdulillah.

I would recommend PB to nursing mothers out there and your road to breast feeding your child up to 2 years is not a problem anymore, inshallah

2012-01-18T16:41:00.003+08:00

Alhamdulillah, the more I talk about the benefits of PB, the more interested people become. Who doesn't want to have that perfect shape and at the same time reap the health benefits. Although there are people condemning the product through horrid websites, that should not deter a person from experiencing it. The product speaks for itself and looking from hundreds of testimonial provided, rest assured that the product works.

However, with any health product, consistency of usage is an important factor. Don't expect to get an amazing shape without wearing the product religiously. Okay, I guess once you've reached your ideal weight, it's okay to skip a day or two without it. Nevertheless, the corset feels like 2nd skin and there are users out there who feel 'empty' without using it. It all boils down to the individual. If ou want best results, remember.. CONSISTENCY is key. Happy trying😊

Wonders of a corset..

2012-01-17T23:10:00.005+08:00

I have come across an amazing product called Premium Beautiful which consists of a Long Bra, Waist Nipper and Long Girdle.

LONG BRA

- The unique 3-piece dimensional clipping cups designed to push up, support and provide firmness to chest.

- Steel cartilage effectively provides firmness and support.

- Bi-layer depression and tightness designed to flatten abdomen and enhance breasts natural shape at optimum.

- 2 ultra-soft wire coils help to slim down body, enhance and firm up body contour.

- The design of bi-layer depression and tightness enables the re-shape of excessive fat around the back.

- Unique ‘U’ shape at the back not only serves as slimming purpose, but also outlines the back contour effectively.

- Diamond butterfly serves as on ornament to protrude the exclusiveness of the product.

- Three pairs of Hook-and-Eye give you safe and comfortable flexibility.

WAIST NIPPER

- Made of seven pieces of ‘smart technology’ wires. It provides support to waist comfortably as well as upholds the backbone and straightens posture firmly.

- The unique bodyshape design, transfers the fat from waist to the breasts and buttocks accordingly, thus to create a perfect and well-balanced contour.

- The imported string from Japan enables the forming of an exquisite waist contour.

- The flexible cutting design creates a perfect contour individually.

- Three pairs of Hook-and-Eye give you safe and confortable flexibility.

- Diamond butterfly serves as on ornament to protrude the exclusiveness of the product.

LONG GIRDLE

- The 32-piece stereoscopic cutting design, based on ‘Fragmentary Pressure Compression Theory’ will effectively divert displaced fat to its original position.

- Unique hip cutting and design will effectively rectify the sagging buttocks, enhance the hip curve and prop-up-hip.

- Detached contour thigh and buttocks, divert excessive fat around the thigh into the hip cup, attaining attractive hip contour.

- Cotton on the waist of circle provides comfort and enhances waist curve.

- Diamond butterfly serves as an ornament t0 protrude the exclusiveness of the product.

- The fixed pressure compression at the abdomen reduces the excessive fat, thus to flatten the abdomen.

- Bi-layer pressure compression design helps to adjust excessive fat around thighs, thus to develop slimmer legs.

- Holey bi-layer cotton provides comfort while wearing.

- Flexible laces avoid any uncomfortable feeling.

Fra Infrared Rays (FIR) are embedded in the fabric. Below are the benefits of FIR:

Drug-Free
Non-addictive
Increases metabolism
Increases blood flow
Reduces hypertension (high blood pressure)
Reduces the chances of blood clots
Improves the elasticity of arterial walls
Flushes toxins from the lymph areas
Reduces the acidity in our bodies (a more alkaline body is healthier)
Improves the immune system
Reduces pain associated with all types of Arthritis
Increases the extensibility of collagen (fibrous protein constituent of bone, cartilage, tendon, and other connective tissue)
Relieves muscle spasms
Reduces joint stiffness
Reduces edema (an accumulation of an excessive amount of watery fluid in cells, tissues, or serous cavities)
Reduces exudates (substances oozing from the skin)
Successfully used to aid weight control
Reduces sinus congestions
Reduces migraine pressures
Relieved headache tension and pain
Helps to heal skin burns & reduces scaring
Reduces inflammatory skin conditions, like psoriasis
Reduces Cellulite dimpling
More affordable the Pharmaceutical Prescription drugs

Amazing right?

PM/e-mail or call (012-3058826) me for free consultation.

2012

2012-01-17T21:50:00.004+08:00

This year marks the first year of school for my eldest boy, Amirul. He's currently attending SKBB which is very close to Mom's place. Harith goes to Tadika Suria in the morning and hangs out at Mom's for the 2nd half of the day. The lil dude Khaleq turned 1 year and 6 months in January and he spends the day 'terrorising' his Atuk.

I'll be confirmed this month and so far, life has been treating me well in this new job. Stress does not seem to creep behind me as how it has been in my previous job. Alhamdulillah. Hubs on the other hand is comfortable in his new place which is good and I get to see him more often compared to when he was living large in an airline organisation.

My resolution this year, well I have not really thought about it. Recently, I call it fate, has brought me to know a businesswoman who is on her way in becoming a millionaire. I feel motivated whenever she pours her two cents on the business she's pursuing. Equipped with an amazing product, she was able to prove herself by becoming successful in an early age. I wish to be as successful under her guidance and insyaallah murah rezeki. I shall share the amazing product in my next entry. Now that Khaleq is asleep, i can now perform Isya' and have some 'ME' time ��

Long hiatus!

2011-11-10T11:35:00.003+08:00

Oh wow! Based on my last post, it has been more than 2 years since I scribbled in this little page of mine. How I used to love to write! Now that I'm juggling a new job (been 4 months now) and 3 very active boys, I hardly have time for myself at all. Ok, must make some time :).

Major happenings these past 2 years:
# I delivered my 3rd boy last July 2010 in Pantai Medical Center. He weighed the lightest (less than 3kg) compared to his brothers since he was 3 weeks early. I have always anticipated an early pregnancy (as was with my other boys) but nver had I imagined he would be so eager to see the world that early! Alhamdulillah, no complications.. just the excruciating pain..Teehee! He's almost 16 months now and quite a speed racer. He started walking after his first birthday and now we can't put him down. Oh, climbing is his favourite hobby too and if you leave him alone ot play by himself, you'll catch him going up and down the stairs like there's no tomorrow. I used to cringe watching him do that but I'm so used to it that I'll let him be and know that he'll be okay. So far no spills yet from the stair climbing (hopefully).

# Harith (my 2nd boy) started with a new kindie this year @ Tadika Suria. The kindie is a bungalow, situated in Jalan Ara. Prior to me leaving my old job, I searched high and low for the perfect place for H and alhamdulillah, found this little nest. Although I had to fork out a little extra to send him there, it is the best choice. H's class teacher is great, very affectionate and concern of her children's development. There are quite a number of mat salleh kids in this kindie which I think could be a good exposure. It's also nice to know that most of my mom's friends cucus go to the same kindie as Harith :). It's been 4 months now and alhamdulillah, Harith is adjusting well in his new kindie and made lots of friends. Oh, he performed in Suria's Annual Concert the other day and he did us all very proud!

# Amirul has started Tadika Islam earlier this year and I am very amazed at his development. He can recite most of the ayat lazim by hard and performed very well in his final exam, to name a few. He joined the Nasyid competition organised by MAIWP and emerged as champion. I was so proud especially when I had the opportunity of attending the semi final and finals and watching him and his friends win the title. He'll be in Std 1 soon and I hope he'll keep up his momentum and be the best he can be, insyaallah.

# After slaving myself for 3 years in S*, I ventured into a new organisation. Closer to home and stress free :). So far so good. I enjoy the 'space' I'm given. Good colleagues, good location. I'm done.

# Hubs is in a happy place now. Although still busy as ever, he still manages to spend time with the kids. Always looking for better opportunities for the family. Insyaallah, with this new lil venture of ours, things will definitely look up..

Ok, my head is spinning and I wanna get a quick nap. See you soon.

Going on 3

2008-06-12T20:58:00.002+08:00

In 3 weeks, Amirul will turn 3. I'm thinking of organising a low key birthday party for him. Just family. In our new home. Nothing lavish like his previous parties. However, I'm afraid I would not be able to pull it off.. considering the time frame. Erm, I better start cracking for ideas. Definitely gonna be a theme party. I pretty much have have an idea of what the theme would be but then again I might not be able to pull it off. Takpe la, asalkan he gets to celebrate his birthday with his loved ones :).

Lil H has yet to have his Aqiqah done. Insya'allah hubs and I plan to have it after Raya.. which would be close to his 1st birthday. That would be a greater affair... insya'allah.

I'll blog more soon :)

A lot has happened...

2008-05-08T14:04:00.005+08:00

Wow.. It has been ages since my last entry and it wasn't on purpose (really!). I was busy with a lot of things... One of em being us, the Zefferins, moving into our new home in Bandar Nusa Rhu. Alhamdulillah, the move was a good one however, our new home sort of looks like 'tongkang pecah' due lotsa stuff lying around which I have not had the time to really sort them out. Insya'allah, I'm giving myself less than 2 month (too long ke?) to unpack evertything and organise and decorate.

So far, our house is erm 80% complete. I'm embarassed to say that our living room is filled with boxes and the kids toys. No sofas, settees, carpets etc yet so guests (luckily only our families were the guests and no complaints from them! *I hope*) have to park themselves at the dining area. Hopefully, we will be able to fill our living room with the essential items soon (poket dah kering :p)

Our 'lounge area' is complete... as we have our tv, bookcases and a sofa. Enough for the Zefferins to have a nice relaxing spot after a hard days work... Thanks to our spacious master bedroom, we are able to fill it with a lot of stuff. Although there are still more spaces to be filled! The kids room is filled with their paraphernalia but I intend to decorate it in a more child friendly concept. Paint it blue... have cute bits hanging on the wall etc...

Kitchen is the most time we spent in.. I'm so proud of my kitchen that I take pride in cleaning it excessively after each cooking session (belum pro lagi but hoping to be - now that i have my OWN kitchen :) ) Even lil Harith likes to be in the kitchen, looking up at me while I cook. Well, lately, he's got this separation anxiety thingy going on so if I disappear for just a second, he will wail like nobody's business! Oh my, my darling booshkoosh!

As for Amirul, he loves to hangout at the lounge, minding his own business. But after awhile, if it becomes too quiet, I know that he's up to something.. Just the other day, he was TV upstairs and the next minute, he came down with a big grin on his face. I start to imagine what damage has he done this time. It turns out, he was happily playing and spraying his father's cologne all over the place. Nasib baik, he didn't finish up the whole bottle! I shall update bout him more in another entry..

Hubby at this moment is on the plane for a business trip. He has so much on his plate yet he still manages to keep us satisfied in every way he can. Thank you hubs!

Okay, gotta go back to work... so far so good in my new job.. I hope I'll be okay here..

Okay, more updates soon!

P/S: Mmm, had Chicken McDeluxe for lunch... which is not good for me since my in house Dr said I have high cholesterol (just above normal range)... Why lah?

Unemployed!

2008-03-27T00:16:00.003+08:00

Today, I am officially unemployed. What a relief! Seriously! I've been slaving myself in my previous company for more than a year and for the past few months (ever since I came back from my maternity leave - thank God for that)the company's performance was very much going downhill. I'm sure it was pretty clear with all the news in the papers - one after another. My boss left while I was still on my leave and that pretty much signaled bad news. Considering my department gets all the HOT (fresh from the oven) news beforehand, we were very aware what the Company was going through.

Alhamdulillah, I managed to land a better job elsewhere (did cha think I'd resign without getting another job first??? Sheesh)up on the hill. Hehehe. Rezeki anak lah katakan. I started job hunting even before I went on my maternity leave. Due to my physical condition then, I failed to get any opportunities. Sad, yes! Just being pregnant, I was discriminated. Bukannya being pregnant ni berpenyakit. I guess I was quite desperate masa tu and any form of rejection was uncalled for. Huhu.

I remembered bagai nak rak I was looking for a job. The funny thing was, I wasn't the only one in my department who was job hunting. Kahkah! We were helping each other out :). My prayers were answered when I got the call from my future employer, asking me to come for an interview. Cuak pulak! Alhamdulillah, the interview went well. The very next day, I got a call back and they were interested! Yippeee. The rest was history-lah! Lega....

Now, I'm on a week break until I get back on the corporate wagon. New job, new pay, new opportunity. Insya'allah, I hope things will work out well for me which at the end of the day, would do good for my lil family. As a matter of fact, new crib for me... new beginning for me, hubs and my boys. Insya'allah, here's hoping for a brighter future for the Zefferins!

Frustation indeed!

2008-03-20T00:32:00.002+08:00

Today hubs went to our house at Nusa Rhu for a meet (or 'bashing' session)with our contractor. We have been facing numerous problem with this Mr S and we've had enough of his lame excuses. Everytime we made plans to meet with him, he would blow us off at the LAST minute and it was just SOOO frustating. Finally we decided to terminate him and get another contractor. But then, considering that he has not finished his assigned work, we opt to keep him until he completes them all. Until we are satisfied with the outcome, no payment shall be made!

I guess hubs did a good job of 'bashing' him this morning as he promised to complete everything by end of the week. GOOD! At least now I can plan when to move things in the house... right after giving it a good clean.

One thing I was disappointed on was that I specifically told him to move the drainage bit in the kitchen (as it would be under the kitchen cabinet, and might pose a problem if it gets clogged) to outside of the house. This was before the kitchen cabinets were to be installed. But then the contractor TOTALLY forgot about it and the drainage remains. To cut the story short, after lots of arguments... and apologies from Mr S, he will do what he was told to do and complete it by end of the week. Thank God that I didn't have to get the kitchen installer to uninstall the kitchen cabinets (I would have killed myself if we were to resort to that!).

So, I hope my visit to Nusa Rhu tomorrow will be a good and satisfied one. I shall now sleep in peace *winks*

Me... The Next Nigella?

2008-03-04T20:26:00.003+08:00

Tomorrow, my kitchen cabinets will be installed and I can't wait to see the results. It should be fabulous since I've spent quite a sum for it. Man, I remembered scouting for the perfect kitchen cabinet company, manufacturers..whatever you call em for quite some time until I finally chose this particular one. The service was also good and quick. Hubs and I thought long and hard on the design, what wood to use, what kind of table top would be suitable, blah blah. Alhamdulillah, we are happy with the end result well at least not until tomorrow.

Hehehe, I'm taking the day off from work tomorrow to especially supervise the installing works. I just hope it won't take up the whole day as I have the urge of going window curtain shopping. So many things to do! Maybe, if I have the time, I'd stop by IKEA and see how good the SALE is. Oh, reminds me that I need to check on lightings for the house.

On top of it all, I hope we could move in pretty soon. I can't wait to be the domestic goddess of my own home. Heheheh.

Mi Casa

2008-02-05T23:33:00.000+08:00

Our crib is all done with the renovation (nothing spectacular, just some nip and tuck here and there) and it’s time for the furnishing to set in. I really have no idea when we will be moving in but the Zefferins surely hope it’s anytime soon. We’ve got people to do the kitchen and wardrobe fittings but the execution is yet to start. Yep, we are moving rather slow but we want to make sure that everything goes smoothly and carefully thought of. Oh yes, money is also tight so we need to prioritize well. Insya’allah, good things come to people who waits (I would like to think so :) )

It’s really hard sometimes when you are not staying by yourself especially when you have your own family. Not that I don’t appreciate all the help that I can get (especially the part of taking care of my kids while hubs and I are at work) but it can get taxing at times that makes you want to scream! Sigh. I realize that living on your own would be more tiring and more challenging but if I don’t go through it, I wouldn’t know for myself, would I? Let’s see the pros and cons:

PROS
1.We get to achieve our own independence (yep, even at 30 y.o.. hahahah)
2.We get to design our place the way we want it to be (I have always loved to own my dream kitchen – though not much of a dream considering the space but at least I get to claim it MINE, MINE!)
3.Hubs and I get to bring up our kids OUR way without any direct intervention (sikit-sikit boleh lah but kalau dah lebih-lebih tu, sakit hati jer ;p)
4.I get to cook meals for my family (guilty – I don’t cook as often as I would like, heck sometimes I don’t cook at all since my mom is the boss of the kitchen and she has her ways)
5.Weekends would be an excuse for us not to wake up soo early and not feel guilty about it..teehee
6.There would be lots of space to put our ever-growing stuff into our new home (our things back at Mom’s dah melimpah ruah!)
7.The kids get to play at the nearby playground without having to worry about crossing any roads (the community is great!)
8.Our house is sort of in between Mom’s and MIL’s so it would not be a problem sending them kids over

CONS
1.Might have to resort to employing a maid to help with the housework. People close to me know very well that I don’t prefer to have a maid. Not that I think I’m a SUPERMOM but I just have an eerie feeling when it comes to this people. How laa?
2.We would have probably spent a BOMB for the house (but it’d be worth it) so tak boleh la nak spent lavishly sangat (not that I do pun). Well, not for a couple of months anyway…hehhehe

Having said that, I hope the moving bit will be anytime soon. Please pray for us. Ooooh, and I am also looking forward in having a house warming cum Aqiqah for Harith in our house. Would be so fabulous! Okay now, back to work!

Better safe than sorry

2008-01-29T06:45:00.000+08:00

I had a scare last Saturday night as I was nursing my son. I felt pain on the lower part of my left breast. Sorta felt like a lump but it was hard and seemed like connected to the muscle tissue. I was worried. What does this mean? Looking at lil Harith snugly positioned next to me, many many thoughts came rushing into my mind. For a person who has been fit as a fiddle all my life, I began to think of the worst. In my family, both from my mom and dad’s side, as far as I’m concerned, nobody has ever been diagnosed of any serious illness. I think by this time, you guys must already know what sort of illness I’m referring to – Let’s just not mention it.

What would be the best way of me getting quick info on this newfound revelation at 11pm at night than surfing the net for answers! There I was, searching every possible websites for symptoms, causes, risks.. you name it! Although from articles that I read, ‘Breastfeeding can offset the increase of breast c*nc*r faced by women who have their first baby after they turn 25’, anything is possible in this modern age. Thanks to the pollution, our food consumption, lifestyle etc. I just hope that I don’t have to be dealing with a worst-case scenario considering that my kids are still small and they need my undying love, devotion and attention. Oh man, this can’t be happening!

I quickly ran downstairs to my hubby who was busy working on his lappie. Told him my predicament and he was surprised although maintained very calm. He quickly went into the net to find for answers. He could see I was very worried but told me not to worry too much and try to get some sleep. How could I? I need answers badly and going into the net for it just wasn’t helping! I figured, going nuts about it would not help either so, I did what hubs told me to and only then make an appointment with my gynae the next day.

Woke up early in the morning to the sounds of sweet Harith stretching and cooing. After Subuh prayer, I recited the doa a lil longer than my usual routine and hoped for a happy ending to this situation I’m in. Hubs told me that (from what he gathered last night through the net), my symptoms could only be a minor infection that is common among nursing mothers. Okay, that is good news.. I mean, that is inevitably curable through medication. But I’m not about to rest on my laurels until I see a Dr.

Unfortunately, I was not able to meet my gynae in the morning, as her schedule was tight so I opt to see her later that night. The whole day I was fidgety although my boys kept me on my toes that made me forget about my problem. I went on as usual, nursing my son (did feel slight tenderness whenever he suckled) throughout the day, hoping that the problem would subside. But it didn’t and I became very anxious. Even so, I managed to nap with my boys till late evening, and then went to the pasar malam.

The time came for me to meet with my gynae and expressed my concerns to her. Hubs and my boys tagged along (I guess for moral support) and they waited patiently while Dr D had me checked. She used the ultrasound method and checked thoroughly. Emotions running wild just looking at the monitor while she scanned for abnormalities. There it was. There was a blockage or should I say some congested milk in my b***st. Dr D was surprised at how much milk I’m producing so she said this is common. The funny thing is that, I’ve always made sure that my son drains my br***t to the very last drop and I’ve never had any problems since Harith was born and even when I was bf my eldest. I guess it is sort of a wake up call for me to ‘not take things for granted?’ Whatever it was, I am so GLAD that it was a blocked duct and nothing serious. Alhamdulillah.

So Dr D gave me some hard-core antibiotics and pills for the swelling and told me to massage the affected area with a warm towel. Things would go back to normal in no time. I was elated (although the bill was pretty pricey)! Alhamdulillah.

My advice for nursing mommies out there, don’t forget to continue having your breast examined as often as you can, be it by the Dr or by yourself. We should not take things for granted and we must always take care of our health and well being.

What Is A Blocked Or Plugged Duct?
The milk is produced in the alveoli of the
breast. This flows down the milk ducts and collects under the dark portion of
the breast called the areola. Sometimes, thickened milk may block a particular
duct. The milk starts collecting behind this obstruction and this leads to the
formation of a hard lump. In case of only a blocked duct, the mother does not
have any fever and looks otherwise well.A blocked duct must be treated.
Otherwise, infection can set in, leading to mastitis and breast abscess. In
mastitis, a portion of the breast feels hot, swollen and becomes painful. In an
abscess, the swelling, when examined, appears to be full of fluid.A lump due to
a blocked duct should be gently massaged towards the nipple to help empty that
part of the breast. The baby should be fed more frequently from that breast. If
you have been feeding lying down (which is otherwise correct), try feeding in a
sitting position. You can also try holding the baby under your arm, instead of
across the front. All this may help to remove milk more efficiently from the
blocked segment of the breast.

Lovely Engagement

2008-01-12T00:04:00.000+08:00

Backdated entry : 9th January 2008

My good friend from college is getting engaged tomorrow and I am SOO HAPPY for her. I’ve known this dear friend of mine, since 1996 and we became good friends. See, in college, there was a handful of girls who came from an all girl school e.g. As***ta, C*N, BB** (you get my drift). So all of us immediately clicked since we felt a bit out of place what with the other students ‘originating’ from boarding schools. We had the common stuff to talk about, we knew the same people, we dressed alike etc. Initially, there were some girls whom felt intimidated by us but never did we behave badly to other people. We do mix with the other students but at then end of the day, we would still ‘lepak’ among ourselves and gossip (what we do best!)

Anyhow, we still keep in touch. Be it SMS, e-mail, Friendster.. u name it. We’ve gone through so many things together. I’m grateful to have her as a friend. Although I’m married now with 2 kids, we still act goofy with each other. I was happy when she met the love of her life. Lotsa things have happened throughout their courtship but I’ve always believed that it would be a lovely ending at the end. True to my words.

She’s gone through a lot of phases in my life – my courtship with dear Jot, my engagement, my marriage, me doing the Mommy thing.. I’m glad that I will be able to do the same with her now.

Dear Ruqie… all the best for your engagement tomorrow. I’ll be there for sure with Jot and the kids. Put on your lovely smile ok cos I’ll be snapping piccas like there’s no tomorrow!! Love and huggies..

What's good for your kid

2008-01-12T00:01:00.000+08:00

I’ve recently read an article about mommies scared to death on breastfeeding their child in public. What nonsense since I don’t think it is a crime to satisfy your child in public as long as you are being modest about it and are equipped with proper nursing covers to cover your erm ‘private’ areas.

I myself have breastfed both my sons in public. When I had Amirul, I was determined to breastfeed him for as long as I can; for the obvious benefits that my son will get as he grows and also for the fact that I don’t have to carry his formula, bottles and thermos wherever I go. However, I was a bit skeptical of how people would react if they see me with a big apron-like-cover and two tiny legs lurking underneath it. So for the first few months of our family outing, I packed a few EBM and a thermos neatly in my oversized bag. After awhile, it became annoying for having to bring along a thermos so I made sure that the time when I need to feed my kid, we would eat or drink at a place where hot water would be easily accessible.

When I got used to feeding Amirul successfully, I ‘graduated’ from packing them EBMs whenever we go out so when the time comes, I only have to find a nursery and then do my ‘business’. But sometimes it is not easy looking for a nursery when your baby is screaming their lungs out wanting a feed IMMEDIATELY. Hubs and I had a difficult situation with Amirul once in O* when lil kiddo was hungry and whimpered for a feed. We were, I would say 10 minutes away from the nearest nursery. While on the way, he started wailing macam kena pukul. Imagine the look we got from people walking pass us. Oh my, by then we were running to the nursery like mad parents!

So I invested in a pretty cool nursing cover I purchased online and practiced nursing my kid with it at home. Once I’ve mastered it and felt comfortable about bf in public, I was ready to try my new ‘toy’. Alhamdulillah, everything went well the first time around. I made sure MANY times that hubby be on the lookout for ‘anything’ (other than Amirul’s leg) pointing out of the cover. Haaha.

So now I would say I’m an expert. Wherever I go, be it a long or short trip, the nursing cover is always in my bag. With my younger boy always in need of a feed, I am well prepared!

To ‘those’ mommies out there, you just have to be confident and feel good about bf your child in public. If other people look at you in some weird way, do what I do – stare back at them and squint your eyes a little so they know you mean business. It usually works! G’luck now.

Back to Work

2007-12-23T23:12:00.000+08:00

I've gone back to work for about a week and a half now and truthfully, I'm not really liking it. Things in office have been rather slow (I shall not go into further detail *eerk*) and I've been a lil de-motivated with the recent happenings especially with our overseas projects. So I think it's best that I seek for greener pastures elsewhere although I know it would not be easy.

Yes, I've looked into and sent my application to a few potential firms that I think would justify more of my qualifications and experience through decent and worthy compensations. So , I'm keeping my fingers crossed for the next couple of weeks (although I'm hoping for a quicker outcome). I really hope there is rezeki for me out there (insya'allah rezeki anak).

How I wish I could be a SAHM or a WAHM so that I could personally tend to my 2 boys. Too bad that's not gonna happen anytime soon. We definitely can't live with only 1 income considering that we are about to move into our new home (banyak nak guna duit woo), me with my weekend shopping sprees (not that I spend lavishly pun - mostly on them kids anyway), family trips... On the other hand, I don't mind working.. going into the office in a smart suit, attending meetings, dealing with colleagues and clients etc. That is why, working in a suitable and condusive environment makes it all the better and worthwhile when you have to leave your kids in the morning.

Insya'allah, when the Zefferins have a steadier income, and hubs don't mind if I quit my job, I would not hesitate to resign in an instant ;p . But for now, I have to make do with what I have and make the right choices when the time comes.

At the end of the day, all the worries do fade away when I see my boys. Sometimes, I still can't believe that I am a mommy to 2 adorable lil tykes. Heehee. Insya'allah, I hope my kids will have a good life and that hubs and I will be able to provide whatever they need, at any cost.

Swimming fiesta

2007-12-18T00:34:00.000+08:00

Backdated Entry (yep, I've been malas :( )

Since I will be returning to work pretty soon (erm in 2 days).. I requested to hubs that the Zefferins do something fun. So, destination was Sunway Lagoon cause Amirul loves to swim (or just play with water) and Harith has not been out (well, he has) for a fun outing (not that he would remember it, but hey.. we have pics for him to see when he's bigger).

So right after hubs came back from his ***** exam, we quickly packed the essentials for the boys and off we went to SL. Parked in Sunway Pyramid to have our lunch @ Chicken Buffet (nyummy). We have not been to SP for sooooooo long that we actually got lost trying to find the restaurant! Dahlah, SP just had it's massive reno, everything looked sooo different but they've got really nice shops (must venture one by one later - IF I ever have the time).

Dah habis makan, time for swimming pulak. Amirul was so excited sampai tak menyempat. He actually said WOW upon entering SL. It was drizzling, luckily we brought his Bob towel with a hoodie so we got him to wear that (konon to shield him from the rain). Harith ok je.. sinking in everything he sees (or manages to see).

Made a stop at the photo corner since Amirul wanted his picture taken with the 'CARS' characters. End up, the whole lot joined in :-D .

Hubs and Amirul made their way to the pool whilst Mommy and Harith sat quietly at the bench ;-) . Harith was sleeping so Mommy had the opportunity to fill up her contacts into her new phone...teehee :P . Half an hour later, hubs resurfaced and told us to move elsewhere so we 'parked' ourselves at the bigger pool. It was still drizzling but Amirul couldn't be bothered... he continued playing in the pool :->

Once in awhile, hubs will bring him to us for some snacks and kesian dia, shivering all over :-S . Boleh lagi continue swimming :P . At one point, Harith was madly crying for milk, so thank god I brought my nursing cover (my best friend). I had a few glances but I didn't bother. Not that I was 'exposed' or being indecent. I'm just fulfilling my responsibility as a mother... 8-)
After all the splish splash, we cleaned up and headed off to the wildlife trail. Stopped at the first spot where Amirul played with some parrots and an albino monkey. Hubs actually wanted to 'bela' an albino monkey and I just gave him a weird look. Ntah apa kena dengan orang tua nih.. tiba2 nak bela monkey. Sensing my disagreement, he quickly changed topic LOL LOL
We stumbled upon some goats so we stopped to look at them. All of a sudden, one of them goats 'said' "Amri...." Well, that's what we actually heard. So, we made fun of my bro's name throughout the whole excursion. Even my darling Amirul kept saying "Amri..." (the way the goat said it..heeheehee). Sorry bro!

Anyways, we left SL before Maghrib and 'parked' ourselves back in SP. I wanted to have our dinner there but hubs thought it'd be better to drive back to Bangsar. After much debate on where to feel up our tummies, BV was the best choice. Had Nandos (extra hot!) and even slipped in a nappy change session on lil Harith. It's funny how babies, when they spend their time in a stroller throughout any excursion, trips wuteva.. can be more exhausted than the parents. True enough, H slept soundly the whole night (with a few undisturbed 'sessions' - note : eyes closed) and woke up late the next morning eventhough H is an early riser. :-O

Thank you hubs for the time spent with us.. hoping to have more outings in the future though you'll be busy in the next coming months... Boo-hoo!

Raya rezeki...

2007-12-15T19:13:00.000+08:00

Backdated Entry - 12 October 2007

Alhamdulillah, it has been 2 months since the birth of my second boy - Harith but I have yet to write about it. I was so sure that I'd blog on it during the confinement period but time was just not on my side. What with having to look after Amirul on top of my newborn.. I had no time to spend even 5 minutes in front of the lappie since my 2 boys were constantly in need of my attention. True, my parents were around but most of the time, Amirul only wanted me to feed him, change him, bathe him etc.... This time around, I started bathing Harith in the first week since I've got the experience and all so I've started getting busy with them boys in the early days of my confinement. Dahlah, I've got to bertungku and put on the 'barut' every single day.. BUT I've gone through it all 'safe and sound' - so proud- *wink*

It all happened in the early morning of October 12..
Mild contractions kicked in around 1am. Right there and then I knew it was time. Tried to go back to sleep but I was feeling quite uncomfortable. So, I managed to tidur2 ayam while thinking whether did I pack enough for my stay in the hospital. At 3am, the contractions were closer to each other but still very bearable. I took my Baby G stopwatch, a notepad and a pen and started timing the contractions. I was very calm compared to the first time (dah amateur :p) and whilst timing, kept looking at my two men sleeping peacefully. All of a sudden, hubs woke up and looked at the ‘paraphernalia’ I had around me and asked whether it was time. I nodded and he quickly bolted out of bed to get ready. It was a rather funny scene for me but it was good that at least I didn’t have to ask him to do anything. He just knew what to do. I was already feeling a bit ‘panickey’ but maintained my sanity by looking at Amirul in his PJs. I just wanted to wake him up and share the good news that his baby brother is on the way but kesian since he slept late the night before (I guess somehow he knew that the baby was coming that he acted rather grumpy). He was still sleeping on our bed when we were done changing so I called up to my sister to look after him. Hubs and I kissed him before we left and whispered to his ear that we will see him in the morning with a gift…

Stuffed everything in the car and drove off to McD to get darling hubs sahur. At this point of time, the contractions were pretty great and I had to hold on my hubs hand for some relief. But when he was making his order, I had to grab whatever lifeless thing I could find in the car. Mind you, hubs was gone more than 15 minutes and I had to endure the pain for 4-5 times! I religiously uttered the khalimah syahadah and recited the necessary doa’s, praying for a quick and safe delivery. Finally, from afar I saw hubs running like a mad person to the car with his fillet o fish in hand.

‘Why the hell did it take so long??’ Kesian my hubs kena marah…but hey I was in pain. So he explained…bla..bla (I wasn’t even listening pun). Neways, off we go and managed to reach SJ** at 5am. It was very quiet with no one around except for the attendants and guards. One of the guards brought me up to the labour suite on a wheelchair while hubs parked the car. I just hope he comes up fast cause I had a feeling that the baby might just pop out anytime now.
As he wheeled me into the suite, I felt a gush of cold air passing through me (must be the air conditioning..) but it felt different. The nurse told me to strip and change into the hospital gown and to lie down for awhile. The pain kept coming but I’m determined to go au naturel as I did before. Hubs finally came into the room, just as the nurse was about to check my dilation. My cervix was already open 3-4 cm and looking at the CTG, the contractions were strong and she said it won’t be long now. My gynae, Dr D had actually just went home when we arrived so the nurses had to call her back. Felt guilty pulak but I certainly will not have this baby without her!

After a few minutes, the nurse came in with some meds for me to clear my bowels. Not even a minute, I rushed to the toilet with hubs behind me. The pain has overcome everything else in my mind and I was sooooo grateful that darling hubby was around to take care of me. Made my way back to the bed and tried to relax. Dr D has yet to arrive and I got pretty anxious. ‘Are you sure she’ll be here on time?’ me asking the nurse. ‘Don’t worry, she lives nearby and you are in good hands’. Okay, felt much better.

6cm dilated and no sign of Dr D yet but everything was under control. The nurses were preparing the ‘equipments’, running around but I was just too phased out. After getting through the most painful contractions, it was time for me to ask for the laughing gas. It was the best thing in life for me at that moment although the contractions can still be felt. I wanted it that way. How else would you know when to push kan? After a few mintues of feeling ‘high’, Dr D walked in and we exchanged greetings.. At this time I dah rasa out of the body experience (teehee). I saw her wearing her boots and putting on her ‘apron’. Oh, seconds before she walked in, my cervix was fully dilated and there was a nurse with me. I told her another contraction is coming and asked whether I can start pushing. She said yes but then I realized that Dr D has not come in yet so I sucked it in and bear the pain.

So when Dr D was ready and I felt another contraction coming, I pushed. Just to think that I did this 2 years ago, it still felt very new to me.. After that first push, I can already feel the baby’s head sliding down and the part where the head remains at the opening, was soo uncomfortable. Just wanted to push my baby out there and then. Hubby was so brave standing behind Dr D and witnessing the miracle (he didn’t do the same 2 years ago as he was too busy comforting me). I could hear him saying ‘Good job Ira. Now give us a good push’. Honestly, I felt so proud and that made me brave the next few pushes.

Puuuushh! My baby’s head was delivered and I was soo relieved. Once Dr D gave the ‘green light’, I gave another push and alhamdulillah, the whole body was delivered. Dr D went on saying ‘Time of delivery : 6.32am’. I was like what? So fast? Alhamdulillah, everything went well.

Baby was whisked away by the nurse and I just couldn’t take my eyes of him. He had a head full of hair with rosy coloured skin. The eyes looked sepet still (like Amirul) but it was too early to tell. Hubs looked oh so proud and had a BIG smile on his face.

While Dr D was stitching away, for the first time I held my baby. My baby boy. With his little fingers and little toes. Alhamdulillah, the Zefferins were blessed with another perfect addition. Hubs had mentioned that he would like to have a girl and insya’allah kalau ada rezeki, why not. Just like the brother, we will concentrate on this new miracle for a couple of years until we try again for another child as I intend to bf my baby for as long as I can.

After half an hour, the nurse came to take the lil one to the nursery and hubs followed them. Once we settled in our room, we confirmed on the baby’s name. We were so anxious to see Amirul’s reaction towards his new brother. Amirul even knows the name of the baby but we told him to keep it as a secret until the baby pops out.

The Rahim clan dropped by before Friday prayers. My heart melted when Amirul called out ‘Mommy?’ He gave us a big hug and asked ‘Baby?’. At that moment, the nurse wheeled in lil baby into the room. Amirul had a smile on his face. I carried the baby and Amirul started kissing his brother. You can’t imagine how many shots we took of him kissing his brother…heehee.
My brother bought a Barney doll for the baby but Amirul quickly took possession of it, claiming it’s his. Okay then. But after awhile, he starts to share the doll with his brother and that’s a good sign.

FIL and MIL dropped by in the evening. MIL had a thorough checkup on the lil one. Comparing him with Amirul. Heehee. FIL wasn’t confident enough to carry him just yet so it’d be in a few months time when he would gather enough courage to hold him. *Snigger*

After everyone left, hubs plonked himself on the chair and we had our talks. Now that we have 2 kids, more responsibility is in order and insya’allah we vow that we would do whatever it takes to keep the family together. For now, we are just letting everything sink in and enjoy the rest of the evening with our new son.

Tomorrow is Hari Raya Aidilfitri. This is a great gift. For a small, wonderful family. For the Zefferins.

*SELAMAT HARI RAYA & MAAF ZAHIR DAN BATIN *

New location

2007-12-06T16:07:00.000+08:00

I have decided to move my thoughts and rambles from here to a new venue. I hope to share more stories of life, kids, family, general views etc. For those whom have been reading my blog from the beginning, might have in some ways connected with me in some level and I appreciate the feedbacks.

Till my next post (which I intend to proceed soon), I welcome..